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Do I have a right to be hurt and angry?

 
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Do I have a right to be hurt and angry? - 11/13/2008 8:14:02 PM   
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Ok I am really hurt and angry right now. My husband has a few friends who send inappropriate emails, they have been told not to but I think after awhile they forget and periodically we get one, my husband doens't open emails until I have checked them out, if they are inappropriate I delete them (trust issues). So today he got an inappropriate email from someone who has been told, I deleted it and told him. He was talking with this guy on the phone today and the guy mentioned this email, my husband said, oh my she doesn't like those kinds of emails so she deletes them, it's best if you dont' send those kinds. Ok why did he blame it on me, he claims he doens't like them either, so why didn't he say WE don't like those kinds of emails so please don't send them. I mentioned it to him when he was done and he said like he was stupid or something and said well why would I say I don't like them when I didn't see it? I said you were telling him that I don't like any inappropriate emails so it should have been WE don't like them, he doens't get it and now we are both mad. How do I resolve things like this, it makes me more not want to be in this marriage that I can't trust him, how can you trust someone (he cheated before) when he can't even stand up to a friend on inappropriate emails, how in the world can he make a stand in other things? Please am I right wrong, how can I work this out, guys maybe you have a thought?
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RE: Do I have a right to be hurt and angry? - 11/13/2008 9:21:48 PM   
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